Reflection Part 2

Well, after some serious thoughts, I still don’t know what is wrong with my previous writing regarding guys having multiple girlfriends.

Thinking real hard…..

I do not mean that all guys go out with girls for the sake of a huge ego, nor do I categorize guys as losers. Likewise, there are in fact many girls who enjoys the company of different guys, treating man like dirt and are just out to play and spend their money. I wouldn’t say that these girls are bitches or sluts either, because if I do, there will be far too many of them in our society.

As of whether people with multiple partners look sexier, it is up to each individual. For me, sexy would most probably be intrinsic. But of course, sexy is used to describe individuals who are capable of making us drool; in terms of look. If I can drool at the sight of some cute, handsome guys; then tell me, which man wouldn’t drop to his knees and got all tongue-tied at the presence of a hot bikini babe??

Have you ever wonder - How would you feel if you are the guy having multiple girlfriends?? Lucky? Sexy? Popular? That’s our mentality. And yes, the same goes for the ladies. From a woman’s point of view, I won’t deny that it does feel good to be popular and all, surrounded by guys and simply tagging them along even if we don’t like them….

All beings would prefer to be superior, to have a particular social status, and one such way is to be seen preoccupied with many others, especially from the opposite gender. The different being, some can achieve it, while others cannot. It seemed as though I am describing all beings as whores, because we all have a sluttish side within us. Yup, all of us.

Of course, it doesn’t make sense to say that every popular person is loose. David Beckham is popular, but we don’t relate him to being loose (maybe yes, I dunno). Likewise, Mother Teresa is famous and well liked, but she is definitely no whore!!

Didn’t son of the devil mentioned that dating is a game?? Yes, I agree with him.

But aren’t there rules for the game??

We evaluate potential partners choose the one that suits us the most. That’s how a relationship starts. In my opinion, we should do it one at a time. No two-timing and making a comparison between 2 – that’s my rule.

Many people like to speed things up and multi-task. Should we multi-task when dating, to make the “evaluation” job faster?? I can guarantee that you will end up with absolutely nothing in the end. You try to have both; you will be the ultimate loser. That’s the forfeit of this game.

I am not implying that we should interpret relationships like a game, because it is definitely not our usual computer games. But there are those who simply plays along, toying with many at a time and deliberately hide the truth until their multiple partners find out. Now, don’t they deserve some punishments??

Once a couple gets married, dating game is over. But guys that are unfaithful are as good as worthless. If he can cheat you once, there is no reason he wouldn’t cheat you again. And if these cheaters get married, who can promise that they wouldn’t keep a mistress?? The same goes for the ladies.

Well, if dating is a game, and marriage is the end of the game, is divorce the restart button??

Yawn~

Some Pictures!!


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