I am happy when I woke up each morning seeing the sun rise.
I smile when I see my friends.
In fact, I am happy and smiles all the time.
Happiness is a choice. We may be a pauper yet feels happy and contented. Likewise, we may be a millionaire but is depressed and unsatisfied.
In life, not everything is smooth sailing. A child’s smile vanishes when time gets by. The smile fades away and an inverted U-shaped is permanently implanted. That’s because we face examinations, competitions, family and relationship problems, financial problems and the list goes on….. Isn’t it stupid to waste our precious time worrying and feeling upset over things like that? Worrying won’t solve the problem. Your exams don’t disappear if you start worrying now. Your doom day will still approach slowly, creeping up to you and finally swallowing you entirely.
Why not choose to accept things with an open heart?? We are usually more innovative and do better when we feels good. The load is lighter when we are happy.
I would be lying if I say I am never sad and I don’t cry. Yes, I do cry and I cry a whole damn lot. I am not as strong as I seem, and I’m like a tofu inside. But, I usually recover speedily and you will see the happiness glowing on my face again.
Unhappiness adds winkles. Why sacrifices my youth worrying and aged faster, adding on to my financial problem, seeing that I will need to fork out additional money erasing my winkles? That doesn’t sound beneficial, isn’t it?? So smile!!! =)
Haven’t they seen me lose my temper?? Okok, that’s fake. I do lose my temper, but not usually. F5+1 may have seen it. Remember the time when Mr Tham scolded us and throw us out of the class when we didn’t do our tutorial? So, I actually showed him attitude. Hahaha!!! I am such a bad girl.
Losing my temper only demonstrates how un-ladylike I am. My friends have to constantly remind me that my 2006 new year’s resolution is to be a perfect lady. That is due to the too-many ladies surrounding me. yf kept reminding me to act and laugh like a lady. Enough la!!!! You can’t change me into a perfect lady, like you can’t tann a white man into a black man. But the vice versa can happen. Miracles do spring up, a black man like MJ can transform into a white man. Perhaps miracles can happen to me too!!!
Ok, back to the topic. Equivalent to feeling upset, losing your temper don’t solve the problem. Instead, it spreads your gloominess and melancholy to the people around you. I remember from one of my humour lectures on anger management. Dr Ko mentioned that when someone loses his temper at you, you will have to vent your anger on another person. It is like a domino effect and it ends up affecting a whole chain of people. So I choose to ignore anything or anyone that annoys me to prevent tarnishing my “so-ladylike” image. Hahaha!!!!
There is no need for a reason to feel happy, and take a lot of effort to lose your temper.
Remember?? I am angelic. Angels don’t lose their temper. Can you see the halo on my head??
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I'm so hungry!!
Cheese cake!! I eat...
and eat.....
and eat!!! Hahaha!!!
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