Why men love Bitches

Yesterday was such a tiring day. I hit town with tim (as promised earlier) and since town is a boring place, we soon found ourselves with no where to go. So, we decided to get the company from the book store, to waste time till dinner.

Near the entrance of the book store, there was a book titled “Why men love bitches” by Sherry Argov. We picked up the book, started flipping through it and laughing our hearts out. It is kind of a self-help book for woman to deal with men, especially for woman who have had multiple failed relationships.

On the whole, I find that book amusing!!! The author had painstakingly listed down 100 attraction principles of a woman. To put in simply, it described why men are more attracted to women who have her own judgment and standpoint, as compared to woman who are dependent on men and find all means and ways to suck up to their man. Not just that, it actually tells you when you are being made used of (if you’re too nice to your guy), and give tips, hints and wicked suggestions to deal with those nonsensical situations that your guy might deliberately put you in. On top of that, it also help woman understand things from a guy’s perspective and why the chemistry and sparks eventually dies down in a relationship.

After a brief scanning, I feel that certain tactics the book had used were indeed applicable but beg to differ from the others – like the one about fake orgasm. Some of the stuff described in the book was pretty true, and few of the pages caught my attention. One of it had listed down the difference between men who adore you and men who treat you like a substitute.

In it, it says that a man who adores you will call you every now and then, make it known to you that they miss you, and they are willing to cancel the outing with their buddies just to be with you. For a man who treats you like a substitute, he won’t call you for weeks and suddenly your phone rang and it is him asking for a date. But, he will not hesitate to cancel the date with you when he had found better options for his time.

Well in my opinion, like how this book had aimed to turn women into bitches by grabbing their guys by the neck, which guy wish to be submissive to their girlfriend and be treated like a little dog??


- Get Your Own


I would give a thumb up for that book, but books are for reference only. If a woman is really so dumb as to use all the tactics the book had taught, the plan to capture her dream guy’s heart may backfire. Shall we just be ourselves and follow our hearts instead of following the footsteps of others, and let our dream guy melt to our feet on their own account??

So what if men love bitches?? I believe that every woman has her unique attracting factors. As long as we know who we are, it doesn’t matter whether we are nice girls or bitches!!