Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Gossips again

I love you forever?? How long is forever?? No one has the answer. No one can promise that, no one can assure either. People change and few things stay the same. In a relationship, there is no right or wrong. There is nobody’s fault. Outsiders are in no position to judge them, because we have no rights to do it.

I was in school quite early this morning. And because we have some extra time before lecture commence, ash and I decided to head towards the canteen. We bought ourselves a cup of tea each and started some random canteen talk - gossips. This time, ash told me about the relationship between J and S.

Actually, I was surprise that ash knew so much about them, clearly proving that she is more Kpo than me. Hahaha!!! As the story goes, S liked J and they were together. After a while, S changed his mind. J’s heart was shattered. Though sadness was not written on her face, there seemed to be a gloomy cloud overhanging her.

Accordingly to ash, S initiated the break-up because he felt that J is not the “right one” for him.

I am not a close friend of his or hers; neither did I realize she was feeling down. It was only until ash told me to read her msn nickname then I knew she was dejected. In fact, she was badly affected by the broken relationship. Conversely, S looked rather fine to me.

Sustaining a relationship is never easy. It requires lots of effort and commitment between the couple. Besides that, mutual respect and sacrifices are necessary. But most importantly, there must be chemistry. Yet, things don’t usually work out well all the time. Ok, I think I am beginning to sound like some love consultant. Haha!!!

We must understand that not all relationships will turn out well. There is a thin line between love and hate. When a relationship ends, it is difficult to even be friends.
Love can make a person grow. I suppose that’s how I grew up too.What were you thinking?? I meant daddy’s and mummy’s love la!!

Falling in love is sweet; falling out of love is painful. Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it happens!!!


How can they delete my profile as and when they like?? Lousy friendster…. puke!!!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yup...In the arena of LOVE, there is no right or wrong. Only a matter of "mis-es". Mis-timing (Either appearing too early or too late...), mis-communication and misunderstandings... Well, that's why I say that Love is the most difficult of all...

Adarina said...

Great interpretation!!!!